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HaMotziThe blessing over the bread (often a challah) that is said before meals and on Shabbat and most Jewish holidays, usually after Kiddush. (Not to be overly opinionated here ‘cause that’s not how we roll, but this blessing is very short and an easy way to take a moment to be mindful/grateful for the food we are about to eat. Some people say it before every meal. Try to do this one every Friday if you can, even if you don’t do anything else. Trust us on this one.)
HaftorahSeriously, we grew up under the assumption that the Haftorah is simply half the Torah. Makes sense, right? Ah, if it were only that easy. Actually, the Haftorah is a selection from the Book of Prophets (Nevi’im) about a bunch of well, prophets, including Joshua, Judges, Samuel and Kings. Only selected passages make it into the Haftorah cycle. There’s a portion to match each week’s Torah reading. The Haftorah is part of a book, not a scroll, and, also unlike the Torah, it has vowels, which makes the Hebrew infinitely easier to read. (Don’t worry – there’s no quiz on this.)
Haggadah(Hebrew for telling.) A guidebook that has all the blessings, songs, etc. for a Passover Seder. JewBelong's Haggadah includes all the traditional stuff, plus a hysterical skit, original songs, and a don't-miss drinking game! Just make copies for all your guests, review the Haggadah before the Seder starts, and let 'er rip!
HalakhaThe Jewish religious laws that come right from the Torah.
HamentashenA triangle-shaped cookie named after Haman, the bad guy in the Purim story. Why name a cookie after a bad guy? To celebrate that he lost! Some folks say that Haman wore a three-cornered hat but others say the three-sided thing has to do with Haman’s ear, or with his dice. Either way, hamentashen can be tasty and crunchy or kind of soft and doughy depending on who’s baking. They’re traditionally filled with poppy seeds or fruit preserves but these days you can find lots of other fancier fillings too.
HanukkahAn ancient story about a war, some badass Maccabees who were the underdogs but won, a temple that was decimated, and some oil that should have kept a candle lit for one day that lasted for eight. Check out JewBelong’s Hanukkah section for more details!
Hebrew Prayer For The Dead(El Maleh Rachamim) A prayer for the soul of a person who has died that is recited with a haunting chant at funeral services, on visiting the graves of relatives (especially during the month of Elul), and after having been called up to the reading of the Torah on the anniversary of the death of a close relative. It is also part of the Yizkor memorial service on Yom Kippur and on the last days of Passover, Shavuot and Sukkot. If one of both parents of either a bride or groom passed away, it is customary to visit the grave before the wedding to recite the prayer. There are different iterations of the prayer for a man and a woman.
High Holidays(Also known as the High Holy Days.) The two days of Rosh Hashanah and the one day of Yom Kippur that are considered the most solemn/important days on the Jewish calendar.
Holocaust(Shoah in Hebrew.) The genocide during World War II in which Hitler's Nazi Germany, aided by its collaborators, systematically murdered six million European Jews, about two-thirds of the Jewish population of Europe.
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KetubahA ketubah is essentially a religious prenup – a marriage contract that is signed before the wedding ceremony. The ketubah outlines the husband’s responsibilities in the areas of clothing, food, sex and just in case, divorce. Today, it’s more seen as an agreement of commitment to each other, signed by two witnesses. Technically, the witnesses aren’t supposed to be blood relatives, so signing is an honor that often goes to close friends. Ketubahs are often quite beautiful, and lots of couples frame them and put them in their bedroom. The cost of a ketubah varies greatly. You can buy them online. There are lots of beautiful ones on Etsy.com, and in most stores that sell Jewish objects.
KichelSweet cookies/crackers sometimes called bow tie cookies because of their shape. Honestly, they’re not our fave, but some people like them. During Passover, kichel can be made with matzah meal instead of flour and are therefore kosher for Passover.
Kiddush(Hebrew for holiness.) The blessing said over wine or grape juice to sanctify Shabbat and other Jewish holidays.
Kiddush CupGlass, cup or goblet used to hold wine, grape juice or whatever you’re using when you say Kiddush, the blessing over the wine before the meal on Shabbat or other holidays.
KittelA white robe made out of cotton which represents purity. Jews are supposed to be buried in a kittel/shroud. They are plain garments, and unlike some religions, where people are buried with items to show their wealth, a kittel/shroud signifies equality for all in death. That is also why Jews are supposed to be buried in a plain pine coffin. No fancy stuff at all. Kittels/shrouds are sometimes worn by rabbis during High Holiday services, or by people on other important occasions, like a groom on his wedding day.
KnessetNational legislature of Israel, which passes all laws, elects the president, approves the cabinet, and supervises the work of the government.
Kol NidreThe service/prayer that is chanted at the start of Yom Kippur (which like all Jewish holidays starts at sundown the day before the actual day of the holiday). It’s an ancient prayer that asks God to release us from any vows we’ve made that may be hanging over our heads so that we can start the new year, which starts the day after Yom Kippur, with a clean slate.
KosherComes from Hebrew for fit or appropriate but is derived to mean clean or pure and refers to food that has been ritually prepared or blessed and which meets the requirements of Jewish law, of which there are many. One basic kosher rule is not eating milk and meat together. So, no cheeseburgers. And since the rule is you need to wait either three or six hours (depends who you ask) after eating meat to have milk products, no ice-cream after a steak dinner either. Other basic rules that you may have heard of are no pig products and no shellfish. See kosher symbols for more information on how to tell if foods are kosher. Google is full of a seemingly never-ending rabbit hole of kosher information. Rock on.
Kosher For PassoverThe short version that most people follow is to only eat foods that are unleavened (don’t rise or include yeast). But, there are way more guidelines. Foods that rise are forbidden during Passover because when the Jews were running to escape Egypt they didn’t have time to let their bread rise. If you want to know more about what is and isn’t kosher, you can find more information on our Kosher page.
Kosher SymbolsKosher symbols, which are called hechshers, are meant to make it easy to figure out if a food is considered meat, dairy, or parve (neither dairy nor meat) according to Jewish law. These foods are labeled with one of the many kosher symbols, including K and some of the more common ones which you can see examples of in our kosher section. You can usually find these symbols in small type on the bottom front of the package. (If you’ve never noticed them before, you’ll probably start now…) To complicate things, there are many organizations who approve the kosherness of food and they don’t use the same symbols. For instance, the one pronounced “OU,” which is one of the more common symbols means a product was certified as kosher by the Orthodox Union. But there are many other symbols out there. There are a few reasons for this. The main one is that some people only trust certain organizations to do a good job of making sure something is kosher. The other reason is that like with any business, there is competition, and some organizations cost more to work with!
KugelA casserole made from egg noodles or potatoes often served on Shabbat and other holidays.
Kvatter/KvattersThe person/people who take the baby from his parents and carry him into the room where the bris will take place. After the bris, the kvatter/kvatters brings the baby back to his parents. This role is considered an important honor and is assigned to family members or loved ones.
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L'shanah TovahTranslated in Hebrew, Shana means “year” and Tova means “good.” How some people say Happy New Year on Rosh Hashanah. Or stick with regular Happy New Year if Hebrew isn't your thing.
Lag BaOmerThe 33rd day of the 49-day period of counting the Omer, which is meant to be a somber time of spiritual renewal, where you can take a break from being sad and do something fun.
LatkesFried potato pancakes that we eat during Hanukkah. Latkes are often eaten with sour cream and/or applesauce. Because why stop the fried food binge there, we also eat jelly donuts, called sufganiyot in Hebrew. Yes, a regular donut will suffice too. All this fried food is because we are remembering that miracle oil that lasted for eight days and symbolizes the miracle of Hanukkah.
Leil SelichotKind of like pre-gaming for the High Holidays. Selichot are prayers of forgiveness that are said during the week leading up to Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur.
LulovA bunch of branches (generally willow, myrtle and palm) which are shaken together with the etrog (a citrus fruit) during the celebration of Sukkot.
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MacaroonsA Passover macaroon is a sticky coconut-based cookie made without leavening that generally comes in a can. Not to be confused with French macaron, which are those fancy meringue cookies made from almond flour that come in lots of pretty colors, but which makes one wonder how one itsy-bitsy cookie can possibly cost $4.00?
MaccabeesBadass group of Jewish rebel warriors that saved the Jews from being forced to adopt a Greek lifestyle around 165 BCE. (That’s 165 years before the year 0.)
ManischewitzThe world’s largest manufacturer of matzah and the maker of the delicious sugary wine used during many Jewish holidays. Tastes kind of like juice so be careful because it’ll catch up with you. Most people stick with concord grape but we love the blackberry flavor.
MatzahUnleavened bread (meaning it doesn’t have yeast), which looks and tastes more like a cracker. Matzah comes in a few flavors… egg, onion, and there’s even a gluten-free version.
Matzah MealFlour made from matzah, and the main ingredient in many Passover foods, including matzah balls. (But not a meal made from matzah! Get it? Matzah meal... LOL.)
Menorah(Hebrew for lamp.) Any seven-branched candelabra is called a menorah. A Hanukkah menorah is technically called a hanukkiah and has nine branches – one for each night of Hanukkah plus the shamash, which is used to light the other candles. Most of us just call the hanukkiah a menorah though.
MenschSomeone your mom would be happy to see you date. A person known for their integrity/doing the right thing.
Mezuzah(Hebrew for doorpost.) The scroll inside a mezuzah contains two passages from the bible: Deuteronomy 6:4–9, which contains the Shema, and the second is Deuteronomy 11:13–21.
Mi ChamochaSome think of this Hebrew prayer as part three of the Sh’ma. It’s a prayer of praise and thanks God for rescuing the Israelites from slavery in Egypt. True, we tell the story of this liberation to freedom on Passover, but we remember it and give thanks weekly, because it was a biggie.
Mi ShebeirachThe central Jewish prayer for anyone who is ill or recovering which asks for a physical cure and spiritual healing.
MinyanThe group of ten people over the age of 13 that is required for traditional Jewish worship. Observant Jews will only count men, not women, for a minyan. We call BS on that.
MiriamA prophet and Moses’s sister. She’s known for doing a lot of important things, mostly related to water, like saving Moses from being drowned as an infant, and helping the Jews find water while they were trekking across the desert for all those years. She gets her own cup filled with water at the Seder table. Miriam was also a good dancer and tambourine player.
Miriam's cupA cup filled with water and placed on the table during Passover to symbolize Miriam’s Well, a magical source of water that lasted during the 40 years the Jews spent wandering in the desert. Also used to honor Miriam’s role in liberating the Jewish people, first by saving Moses from death on the Nile and then helping to raise him. Miriam’s cup also celebrates the critical role of all Jewish women, past and present.
MohelA person who performs circumcision, and is often, but not always, a doctor or a rabbi.
MosesAn important biblical figure considered to be one of the greatest Jewish prophets. He led the Israelites out of Egypt to freedom, and spoke to God more than once, including the time that God told him the 10 Commandments. Moses really didn't want the job of being a prophet when God first approached him. (For one thing, Moses stuttered which made him shy.) Fortunately, Moses turned out to be pretty good at the prophet thing.
Mourners KaddishThe Hebrew prayer recited in memory of the dead during the mourning period and to mark the anniversary of the death of a loved one. People can say Kaddish for people they don’t know, too. For instance, to remember those who died in the Holocaust. Interesting fact – death isn’t mentioned in the Kaddish, instead the prayer is largely focused on praising God.
Musaf (Mussaf)Also known as addition because it’s like an extra service that is said at the end of some Shabbat morning services. Considered a verbal substitute for the animal sacrifices that used to be offered on Shabbat, and another chance to thank God for the joy that Shabbat brings.
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ParashaThe weekly section of the Torah that is read aloud in Hebrew and discussed during Shabbat services. (The Torah is divided into 54 weekly portions, in case you were wondering.) After the reading comes the D’var Torah, which is a short speech or mini-lesson based on the Torah portion that was just read. It’s often the most interesting part of the service because it can vary depending on who is doing the lesson, and sometimes people get kind of creative.
PareveFood prepared without any meat or dairy, which can be eaten with both meat and dairy dishes according to kosher dietary laws.
Passover(Pesach in Hebrew.) The eight-day celebration that commemorates the Jews being freed from slavery in ancient Egypt. Also, the most widely celebrated Jewish holiday, with good reason. The Seder, which takes place on the first two nights of Passover, is like a fun dinner party with interesting conversation, singing, wine, JewBelong's hilarious skit (no props required), and if you're really in the mood to party, a drinking game.
PurimA happy holiday that celebrates the defeat of Haman's plot to massacre the Jews as written in the biblical book of Esther. The celebrations often include Purim Schpiels which are plays that retell the Esther story but in original ways. Also a holiday to dress up in costumes, eat hamentashen (triangle-shaped cookies), and drink till you’re shit-faced.
Purim SchpielsA funny skit that tells the Purim story. Often includes dressing up in costumes so some people call it Jewish Halloween, but really, it's not.
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RabbiA Jewish scholar or teacher and spiritual leader. If you want to become one, be prepared to go to rabbinical school for five years.
ReconstructionistSomewhere between Conservative and Reform. It started as an offshoot of the Conservative movement but today it’s closer to Reform. Services and observance seem traditional, but the overarching idea is that Jewish values and practices take precedence over religious rules and traditions. Reconstructionist Judaism seems to work well for interfaith families or Jews by choice. It’s heavier on meaning, welcoming and spirituality than on dogma.
ReformKnown for being less bound to rule-following and more focused on Jewish values. Maybe not coincidentally, it’s the largest group of North American Jews. Reform services are often in English, sometimes with a guitar or other musical instrument. (See Different Kinds of Jewish for more.)
Rosh HashanahThe Jewish New Year. Rosh means head and Hashanah means the year. So, Rosh Hashanah translated means head of the year.
Ruth's BlessingRuth, as in The Book Of, as in the great-grandmother of King David, was part of an interfaith marriage. To honor the growing diversity of the Jewish people, and to give thanks to our badass matriarch for leading the way, we created Ruth’s Mix to go with the blessings. It’s a combination of almonds, raisins and chocolate chips. The idea is that each of these ingredients is good on its own, but when mixed together, they’re even better. If you include Ruth’s Mix (you don’t have to, but it’s a crowd-pleaser), take a bit before reading JewBelong's Blessing For Anyone Who Wasn't Born Jewish ('Cause We Know This Is A Lot).
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SandekThe sandek was traditionally the person who held the baby on his lap while the mohel performed the bris. These days most parents prefer that their baby boy is placed on a sturdy table, for obvious reasons, with the sandek standing close by. Being the sandek is considered the greatest honor at a bris.
SecularYup, you can be an atheist and a Jew. One of the coolest things about Judaism is that it does not demand belief in God to be a good Jew. It puts acts of kindness in front of faith. Secular Jews often include Jewish traditions and values in their lives. Some may also belong to a synagogue or another Jewish community that does Jewish stuff but that don’t have a big focus on the God parts. Almost half of American Jews consider themselves Secular or somewhat Secular, according to a Pew study that was done in 2013. So yeah, this is a big group.
Seder(Hebrew for order.) The dinner held on the first two nights of Passover. The Story of Passover is told in the same order around the world, hence the name Seder - get it? Also, if you think Seders are boring, you've never used the JewBelong Haggadah.
Seven BlessingsA traditional part of a Jewish wedding, and also a great way to include loved ones in your ceremony. Check out JewBelong's wedding section for the original blessings plus a few new ones.
Sh'maConsidered the most important prayer by most observant Jews as it declares belief in one God, which is really important in Judaism. It’s generally said twice a day, upon waking and before going to sleep at night. It’s very short and translates to Hear O Israel, the Lord is our God, the Lord is One.
Shabbat(Also known as the Sabbath.) The day of rest that starts at sundown on Friday and ends at sundown on Saturday. Most of the time when we refer to Shabbat at JewBelong we mean Friday night, especially dinner. There are many ways to “keep Shabbat.” Most refer to a staying away from using any electricity, perhaps going to synagogue, taking a nap, spending time with family and friends and recharging yourself for the workweek ahead.
ShamashAlso known as the helper candle. Used to light the other candles on Hanukkah.
ShavuotA harvest festival mostly known for the time when the Jews received the Torah at Mount Sinai. The tradition is to stay up all night and study Torah, which is surprisingly awesome. We know, you’re like, dude, what’s so great about that? But remember back in college when that crazy studying 3:00am slightly euphoric feeling set in and you suddenly and inexplicitly feel at one with everyone else in the library? It’s like that but better, ‘cause there’s no test or deadline. There’s also a tradition of eating dairy foods like blintzes and cheesecake (and Lactaid).
ShemaProbably the most important Jewish prayer. It’s very short and straightforward. (The English translation is: Hear O Israel, the Lord is our God, the Lord is one.") Observant Jews say the Shema twice a day. This prayer is also meant to be the last thing said by someone who is about to die.
Shemini AtzeretThe day after the last day of Sukkot (Shemini means eighth in Hebrew and some people consider this the eighth day of Sukkot) and the day before Simchat Torah. No one can really explain what the holiday is about because there isn’t a clear translation for the word Atzeret.
Shemira(Hebrew for watching or guarding.) The tradition of staying with someone who has died from the time of death until burial. This is done out of respect for the dead, so that they don’t have to be alone prior to burial. We also think it’s comforting for the deceased’s loved ones, because it’s sad to think of the person who died lying alone in some cold room. Being a shemira (guard) is considered the highest form of mitzvah because you are helping someone who can never repay your kindness.
Shiva(Hebrew for seven.) The week long period of Jewish mourning for close relatives: father, mother, son, daughter, brother, sister and spouse. Generally referred to as "sitting shiva." Shiva is fantastic because in an odd way it celebrates mourning. It’s not about “getting over it,” or “getting back to normal life.” The time is meant to be spent mourning the person who died. Many people sit shiva for less than seven days, which is fine of course, but tradition is to sit for all seven days to get the full effect. If you know someone who has had a death in their family, don’t wait to be invited to shiva. Just find out when it is and go. It’s a mitzvah.
ShloshimThe 30-day period following burial (including shiva). So, even after shiva (the initial 7-day period) is over, there are still another 23 mourning days. The mourners go to work and carry on with their lives, but there are some restrictions (like going to parties, etc.) that people in shloshim typically don’t do. When shloshim is over, the mourning period is over, unless it’s your mom or dad who died. In that case, your mourning period is one full year.
ShofarA musical instrument made from a ram’s horn. It’s blown during Rosh Hashanah services and again to mark the end of the fast at Yom Kippur. Sounds like a horn and is way harder to play than it looks!
ShroudA white robe made out of cotton which represents purity. Jews are supposed to be buried in a kittel/shroud. They are plain garments, and unlike some religions, where people are buried with items to show their wealth, a kittel/shroud signifies equality for all in death. That is also why Jews are supposed to be buried in a plain pine coffin. No fancy stuff at all. Kittels/shrouds are sometimes worn by rabbis during High Holiday services, or by people on other important occasions, like a groom on his wedding day.
Simchat Torah(Hebrew for Rejoicing with the Torah.) Celebrates the end of the yearlong cycle of weekly Torah readings. It’s a cool holiday because if you go to a synagogue, you can actually see the rabbi or whoever read the end of the Torah and then basically wind the whole thing to the other side to start from the beginning again. Some synagogues unscroll the entire Torah, with people standing next to one another holding the top and bottom of the parchment really carefully so it doesn’t rip, which looks super cool. Simchat Torah is a happy holiday with lots of singing and dancing and eating.
SoferA sofer is a specially trained scribe who uses the traditional form of Hebrew calligraphy to write texts onto parchment using a special quill pen. They are not allowed to make a single mistake on any parchment. The sofer might spend time checking existing texts to make sure that they were properly made and have not been damaged over time. It's all a lot harder than it looks!
SukkahA temporary hut built during the celebration of Sukkot, also known as the Harvest Festival, and kind of like Jewish Thanksgiving. Many families spend time hanging out and eating meals in their sukkahs. Some families even sleep in them, which can be like a big family sleepover.
SukkotThe Harvest Festival, kind of like Jewish Thanksgiving. It lasts for seven days. The holiday is named after the temporary huts that the Israelites lived in while they wandered through the desert for 40 years. Many people celebrate Sukkot by building their own huts, called sukkahs, and hanging out and eating their meals in them. Some families even sleep in their sukkah, which can be like a big family sleepover. Two traditions of Sukkot are waving the lulov and etrog, which has to do with joy, fertility and rain, and decorating the sukkah with fruit and paper chains.
SynagogueAlso known as a shul or temple, the building where a Jewish congregation meets for religious worship, Jewish holidays, Hebrew school, etc. Like a church or a mosque for Jews.
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Tallit(Sometimes pronounced tallis.) A prayer shawl. It looks like a regular shawl but has special knotted fringes (known as tzitzit) at the four corners. Traditionally only men wore them, but ya’ know, equal rights. In many synagogues people only wear tallitot (plural for tallit) when the Torah is going to be read, which is usually on Saturday mornings and other holidays. (So, you know you’re in for a longer service when you see a tallit.) A tallit used to be mostly white with blue stripes, but now they can be found in many gorgeous colors and fabrics. Tallit are supposed to be made from wool, cotton or some synthetic fibers. There are kosher rules about this. Who’d a guessed?
Talmud(Hebrew for instruction.) A set of books that is comprised of the opinions of thousands of rabbis on a variety of subjects and largely based on laws. It is meant to be studied and discussed in groups rather than just read to oneself. Some observant Jews spend a large part of their lives studying the Talmud. Like really, that is what they do every day, all day. This is a real problem for the economy of Israel as most of these studiers are supported by the country which is not all that wealthy to start with. But we digress...
Tanakh(Pronounced tanach.) The collection of Jewish texts and scriptures, including the Torah. Sometimes called the Hebrew Bible.
Tashlich(Hebrew for cast off.) As in to cast off your sins. All you need is moving water (like a creek, or even a sink if that’s all you’ve got), some small pieces of bread, and a mental list of all the garbage you need to chuck to start your year with a clean slate. Think about everything you need to let go of – the guilt, the habits, the shame, etc. And then cast it all away using the bread as a stand-in.
TchotchkeThe Yiddish word for a knickknack or little gift. You know, like those things that your Bubbe used to give you when she came for a visit. Tchotchkes are also the things that you toss when you finally decide to clean out your desk.
Tikkun Olam(Hebrew for repair of the world.) A key Jewish value defined by acts of kindness meant to help repair the world. This is a basic Jewish teaching and is one of the reasons that Jews are so involved in social justice issues. As Jews, we are commanded to repair the world, and God knows, it needs it. Yes, this is pressure, but the idea is that no one of us can heal the world on our own, but we are all accountable for doing our part, so we also keep our expectations realistic.
Tisha B’AvA day for remembering tragedies that the Jewish people have been through, commemorated with fasting and sadness. There are too many tragedies to list, but a few of the big ones that people think about are the destruction of the two temples in Jerusalem, and the Holocaust.
TorahThe central scriptures of Judaism. Torah can refer specifically to the Five Books of Moses (Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy) or more generally to the entire Old Testament, known as the Tanakh.
Tu B'ShvatThink of it as Jewish Arbor Day. In Israel, trees are an extra big-f*#king deal because most of Israel was a desert and the trees were planted one by one. People celebrate by eating fruit and planting more of those badly needed trees.
Tu B’AvLike a Jewish Valentine’s Day. It’s a sweet day to celebrate love and romance. Back in the olden days, it was a 24-hour period for unmarried women to find a husband (without help from J-Date or Tinder).
TzedakahHebrew word that people often say when they are referring to charity or charitable giving, but which actually means righteousness, justice or fairness. A core value of Judaism, giving to those in need is considered an act of social justice, and something that Jewish people are obligated to do. Considered a key part of living a meaningful life. There is a ton of Jewish wisdom about tzedakah. For example, the bible commands that farmers leave the produce at the edges of their fields unharvested so it can be taken by people are in need.
TzitzitThe fringes at the end of a tallit. Also the fringes at the end of a vest that is worn like an undershirt. Most observant Jewish men wear tzitzit all the time, either visible or tucked into their pants. Some women probably wear them too, but we have never seen any in real life, only on Google. The tzitzit are meant to be a reminder of religious obligations and the Exodus from Egypt.