passover

A CELEBRATION OF FREEDOM AND THE FUTURE

Passover is the most widely celebrated Jewish holiday! So you’d better get the terms straight… Passover is the name of the eight-day holiday. The Seder is like a fantastic dinner party, with delicious food and thought-provoking conversation (not to mention plenty of singing and wine). The haggadah is the guidebook, kind of like a script, for the Seder.

when is passover?

EIGHT DAYS OF MATZAH

Passover starts at sunset Saturday, April 12, 2025 and ends at sunset Sunday, April 20, 2025. Yeah, that seems like a lot of time to us too. Traditionally there are two Seders, one on the first night and one on the second. The rest of the eight days is when you stay away from bread and close to matzah. The two Seders are exactly the same except that the chicken soup tastes better the second day. The reason for two Seders has to do with the moon, and the calendar, and that the rabbis weren’t exactly sure which night it started in the Diaspora, so they decided we should cover our bases and celebrate Passover twice. True story.

Passover is when we celebrate the liberation of the Israelites from Egyptian slavery by retelling the story of the Exodus at a Seder. If you’ve ever seen the classic movie The Ten Commandments starring a ripped Charlton Heston or A Rugrats Passover, you probably know the story. The name Passover (Pesach in Hebrew) comes from the last of the 10 plagues, when the firstborn children of the Egyptians were killed while the Angel of Death literally passed over the Jewish homes. Brutal for sure, but it was the only way to get Pharaoh to release the Jews from slavery (you’d think hail and locusts, etc. would’ve been enough, but the guy really hung on).

Passover is filled with traditional foods, especially matzah, which includes matzah balls, matzah brei, and matzah kugel. You’ll also find hard-boiled eggs, green herbs dipped in saltwater, horseradish, and matzah and charoset sandwiches to help experience the Passover story. Another traditional dish is gefilte fish, like a cold ground fish mousse (you either love it or you don’t). Many families will also have the kinds of foods they’d normally eat at Thanksgiving at their Seder, minus the stuffing, obviously.

Keeping kosher for Passover means not eating bread or other leavened foods (a.k.a. chametz), but there are way more rules than that. Many people don’t even have foods with leaven in their homes and will keep kosher for Passover the whole eight days of the holiday

Chametz is any leavened food, such as bread, that is not eaten during Passover. Observant families remove all chametz from their homes before the holiday. For families with little kids a dramatic part of Passover preparation is searching for the last traces of chametz in the dark using just a candle to find any lingering crumbs. There are lots more rules and activities like that. Google them if you’re ready to take a deeper dive.

hosting?

lead a kickass seder

Hosting a Seder is a lot like throwing an awesome dinner party with props and a set agenda. It includes lots of drinking and eating and singing, which generally makes for happy guests. Just remember that making the Passover story come to life for your guests matters more than the matzah balls. What if it’s the only Jewish experience some of your guests have the entire year? Don't worry, you got this! We have some awesome ideas below to make your Seder memorable.

(Plus, we’ve got you covered with eight steps for a Kickass Seder on pages 2-3 of our Haggadah)

burning bush
drinking game

A Passover drinking game! The JewBelong Haggadah performs best when read aloud in a group. As you read the story of Passover from the amazing skit, every time you hear the name Moses, do a shot of Fireball.

Recline as needed.

red sea
centerpiece

Fill a shallow serving dish with red Jell-o and let set. Create two areas of “land” on each side, using whatever items you have handy. (Go nuts! Literally. Use nuts, matzah, kichel, macaroons – literally anything works.) Finish by adding figurines to represent Moses and the Israelites. Too extra? We don’t think so!

holy baby
moses!

If you want some unique and adorable Passover table decorations and have young kids, this is a great family craft activity that everyone can enjoy together. Start by wrapping a baby doll in a small blanket, then place it carefully in a basket. Add some straw around the doll to give it that “natural” look. Ta daaa! Baby Moses!

what's a seder?

So many Seders are as dull as a piece of plain matzah, but leading a kickass Seder is both highly do-able and super important. There are 14 steps to the Seder. The steps help us retell the story of the Exodus, which is when the Jews fled slavery at the hands of the Egyptians, across the desert to their ultimate freedom in the land that was supposed to be flowing with milk and honey, aka: the promised land, aka: Israel.

Fill your cup with the first glass of wine, lift the cup, say the Kiddush, and drink, leaning to the left. All Jewish celebrations, from holidays to weddings, include wine as a symbol of our joy – not to mention a practical way to increase that joy. The Seder starts with the first cup of wine and then gives us three more opportunities to refill our cup and drink.

Baruch atah Adonai, Eloheinu melech ha-olam, borei p’ree hagafen. Amen.

Blessed are You, God, Spirit of the Universe, who creates the fruit of the vine.

We wash our hands twice during the Seder. This first hand-washing comes at the beginning, to prepare us for the experience of the Seder. The traditional way to wash your hands with a blessing is to fill a large cup with water and put the cup in your left hand and pour three times over your right hand. Repeat this by pouring on to your left hand. As you dry your hands, you recite the blessing. Don’t get all JewBarrassed on us if you don’t do it this way or at all, it’s just that we figured we’d explain the traditional hand washing steps. By the way, everyone going into the kitchen or bathroom to use the sink does take a few minutes, so if you don’t think this is a great use of Seder time, just send one person to be the hand washing representative.

Water is refreshing, cleansing, and clear, so it’s easy to understand why so many cultures and religions use water for symbolic purification. Washing hands twice during our Seder: now, with no blessing, to get us ready for the rituals to come; and then later, with a blessing, preparing us for the meal.

Baruch atah Adonai, Eloheinu melech ha-olam, asher kidshanu b’mitzvotav vitzivanu al n’tilat yadayim.

Blessed are You, God, Spirit of the Universe, who has sanctified us with Your commandments, and commanded us concerning the washing of the hands.

 

We say this blessing before dipping a green vegetable into salt water. The vegetable represents Spring and renewal… as Passover always takes place at the beginning of Spring. The salt water represents the tears and the sweat of our ancestors when they were slaves out in the hot sun building those enormous pyramids. It’s a good idea to put a few small dishes with greens and a few small dishes with salt water around the table. That way it doesn’t take forever for everyone to get their dipped greens.

Passover, like many of our holidays, combines the celebration of an event from our Jewish memory with recognition of the cycles of nature. As we remember the liberation from Egypt, we also recognize the stirrings of spring and rebirth happening in the world around us. We now take a vegetable, representing spring, and dip it into salt water, a symbol of the tears our ancestors shed as slaves. Before we eat it, we recite a short blessing:

Baruch atah Adonai, Eloheinu melech ha-olam, borei p’ree ha-adama.

We praise God, Spirit of the Universe, who creates the fruits of the earth.

It’s nice if you do break the middle matzah with a little dramatic flair: It’s easy. Somewhere on the table you should have three pieces of matzah together on a plate. Take the middle piece and hold it up for everyone to see. Then break it in half. Then, take the larger half and wrap it up in a napkin and if there are any kids at your table, tell them that this is now the afikomen and that you can’t finish the Seder without it. Afikomen really means, “that which comes after,” or dessert.  Anyway, this is the clue for the adults to steal the afikomen at some point, (probably during the meal) and hide it. And then the kids need to find it before the Seder can conclude. (More on that in step 11!)
 
There are three pieces of matzah stacked on the table. We now break the middle matzah into two pieces. One piece is called the Afikomen, literally “dessert” in Greek. The Afikomen is hidden and must be found before the Seder can be finished. We eat matzah in memory of the quick flight of our ancestors from Egypt. As slaves, they had faced many false starts before finally being let go. So when the word of their freedom came, they took whatever dough they had and ran before it had the chance to rise, leaving it looking something like matzah.
 
Uncover and hold up the three pieces of matzah and say together: This is the bread of poverty which our ancestors ate in the land of Egypt. All who are hungry, come and eat; all who are needy, come and celebrate Passover with us. This year we are here; next year we will be in Israel. This year we are slaves; next year we will be free.  

Maggid is the part of the Seder where we tell the story of Passover—how the Jewish people went from slavery to freedom. It’s the heart of the evening, a chance to connect with our history and remember what it means to be free. But tonight, we’re shaking things up! Instead of just reading the story, we’ve turned it into a fun skit: What If God Hadn’t Taken Our Ancestors Out of Egypt? Check it out in our Passover Haggadah! It’s a chance to bring the story to life with a little humor and creativity. So grab your parts, get into character, and let’s dive into the drama of the Exodus together!

It’s time to wash hands again, but this time with the blessing. It’s customary not to speak at all between washing your hands and saying the blessings over the matzah:

Baruch Atah Adonai, Eloheinu melech ha-olam, asher kid’shanu b’mitzvotav v’tzivanu al n’tilat yadayim.

We praise God, Spirit of the Universe, who commands us to wash our hands.

Even though we don’t eat bread on Passover we still say HaMotzi (the blessing over the bread) during our Seder. Why? Because traditionally, HaMotzi is recited at the start of every meal, so this one is not different. Then we recite a special blessing to fulfill the commandment to eat matzah on Passover.

Raise the matzah and recite two blessings: the regular bread blessing and then one specifically mentioning the mitzvah of eating matzah at Passover.

Baruch atah Adonai, Eloheinu melech ha-olam, hamotzi lechem min ha-aretz. Amen.

We praise God, Spirit of the Universe, who brings bread from the land.

Baruch atah Adonai, Eloheinu melech ha-olam, asher kid’shanu b’mitzvotav v’tzivanu al achilat matzah.

Blessed are You, God, Spirit of the Universe, who commands us to eat matzah.

We say this short blessing after we all get some bitter herbs aka: horseradish, on our matzah. The bitter herbs symbolize the bitterness of the slavery our ancestors endured. Like the salt water and greens, it’s best if you have a few small dishes of the horseradish so that it doesn’t take forever for everyone at the table to get some.

Baruch atah Adonai, Eloheinu melech ha-olam, asher kid’shanu b’mitzvotav v’tzivanu al achilat maror.

Blessed are You, Spirit of the Universe, who commands us to eat bitter herbs.

While the English Earl of Sandwich is generally credited for inventing the snack of his namesake, Hillel may have originated it two thousand years ago by combining matzah, a slice of paschal lamb, and a bitter herb, often referred to as a “Hillel Sandwich.” Jews no longer sacrifice and eat a lamb, so now the Passover sandwich is only matzah, charoset, and a bitter herb. Most people just make it and eat it, although some people say these words first:

“This is what Hillel did, at the time that the Temple stood. He wrapped up some Pesach lamb, some matzah and some bitter herbs and ate them together.”

This one we don’t need to explain! Just know that at many a Passover Seder, the meal begins with an egg dipped in salt water. The egg symbolizes the cycle of life and renewal, while the salt water represents the tears shed by the Israelites during their slavery in Egypt. This meaningful tradition marks the start of a new chapter and sets the tone for the Seder.

Remember that whole thing during Step 4 (Yachatz) where we hid the afikomen? Now is the time for the kids to find it. The Seder can’t conclude until it’s found! Do the afikomen hunt however you want. In our house, we break the afikomen into like 30 pieces and some adult hides it and the kids look. With so many pieces, everyone’s kid finds some which can help avoid fights or tears.

Like the tooth fairy, it’s traditional to give a prize to the kids who find the afikomen, so someone needs to have dollar bills on hand. The Afikomen hunt and the four questions were invented ages ago with the sole purpose of keeping little kids interested during a long dinner.
 

For those who went to Jewish camp, benching (aka Grace) after the meal is a terrific throwback to fun times. The tune is catchy and uplifting. The name benching came from the Yiddush term bentshn which means “to bless.” There is a much longer version of benching, but this relatively short and sweet one is really lovely. Just a nice way to end the Seder by giving thanks for the food we’ve just eaten.

Baruch atah Adonai, Eloheinu melech ha’olam, hazan et ha’olam kulo b’tuvo b’chen b’chesed w’rachamin. Hu noten lechem l’chol basar ki l’olam chasdo. Uv’tuvo hagadol tamid lo chasar lanu v’al yech’sar lanu mason l’olam va’ed. Ba’avur sh’mo hagadol ki hu zan um’farnes lakol umetiv lakol umechin mazon l’chol b’riyotav asher bara. Baruch atah Adonai hazan et hakol.

We praise God, Spirit of the Universe, whose goodness sustains the world. You are the origin of love and compassion, the source of bread for all, food for everyone. As it says in the Torah: When you have eaten and are satisfied we thank you for the earth and for its sustenance. Renew our spiritual center in our time. May the source of peace grant peace to us, to the Jewish people, and to the entire world. Amen.

The JewBelong Haggadah has the ever-popular Chad Gadya song, as well as a fun call and response Echad Mi Yodea. Be sure to get your Haggadah below!

This is when we say, “Next year in Jerusalem!” Which is not a cue for a big political argument. You can think of this as really trying to be in Jerusalem for next year’s Passover celebration, which would be super cool! Or, you can think of this metaphorically and Jerusalem in your heart can be your place of peace.

Our Seder is over, according to Jewish tradition and law. As we had the pleasure to gather for a Seder this year, we hope to once again have the opportunity in the years to come. We pray that God brings health and healing to Israel and all the people of the world, as we say…

L’shana haba-ah biy’rushalayim

NEXT YEAR IN JERUSALEM.

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